Buddha Mil Gaya

I was on my Western India trip to Udaipur and other cities nearby. Ultimately I was so stuck with the scenery I saw in Udaipur, I didn’t feel like seeing any other city in Rajasthan. After a day of visits to the city palace, Lake Palace, there was something I was missing. I didn’t mind traveling alone; it was great. Udaipur is full of lakes,

On our way to Mount Abu, we saw the setting of a famous song in QSQT; I wished my dear friend was around to experience the feeling alongside me.

But none could match the beauty of Gurshikar, the highest point of Mount Abu, which I was about to see in some time.

The walk we took was like a walk in the clouds; literally, it was. I was accompanied by Raj and Nitin, whom I got to know from Raj. Both are from Udaipur, and surprisingly, it was Raj’s first outing to Mount Abu.

We reached Mount Abu at around 10:30 in the morning.

Getting soaked in the clouds was something new to us, and it was hard to disassemble our feelings on experiencing such a thing.

After spending few hours at the peak, we decided to go to another place called Achalgarah. Legend has it; it was the place once Pandavas stayed during their exile.

I was not feeling well since I am scared of heights. But I did ring the bell at the highest point of Mount Abu. Later, because of my condition, I was hesitant to visit the temple. But inside me, I felt, let me go. It might get better.

We were letting off our footwear, just when a boy held me and told me, “Saab, Guide chahiye.” I was not interested, and then he told me- “Saab, sirf das rupaiya.” I got a mixed feeling, “ok, It is just ten bucks,” I wondered.

Still, I was not convinced as to what made me hire him.

After our initial visit to the Shiva temple, we started our climb to the next place, the Jain temple.

The camera wasn’t allowed inside the Jain temple.

The next stop was a kilometer climb till we reached the peak of Achalgarah. It is a propensity in me to know about a person, whoever he or she may be. I make that extra effort in knowing them.

Name Suraj, 12 years of age, studying in 6th grade at a school about 8 kilometers from his house. He was our guide.

I was asking him about how he goes about his daily life-“I go to school early in the morning, I return by noon, and then I start earning by being a guide. My father earns through selling dolls, and my mom makes them. My brother also studies in the same class even though he is four years older than me”, he smartly replied.

Interesting, I said to myself.

He later shifted his thoughts towards the reality of life. He was telling, “To be good in life, it’s like climbing,” we did realize, since it was getting tough as we went up step by step—déjà vu.

He looked like a normal kid, 3 ft tall, carried an umbrella, and, more importantly, the right words to keep the tourists like us in a jolly mood even when it was a little tough physically to climb. He had a torn pair of Hawai chappals but had a good grip even though he experienced the occasional slip. His shayris were assuaging to our ears.

“Saab, life has its fun; it isn’t easy but certainly not a difficult one,” he murmured

We finally reached after a 25 min climb; we were thirsty.

Flash gave us a bottle of water and said, drink it; it’s pure. It was. Indeed, the most delightful drink I ever gulped in my life, and I did wash my face with it. I was rejuvenated. I had symptoms of throwing up previously; it went away. I am not joking.

He asked me- “Saab, are u from England?” Did I tell him, why son, am I not speaking good Hindi? He replied -“I am confused about how come an English guy speaking such good Hindi.”

I told him, I am a South Indian, and I come from Bangalore. I wasn’t surprised either when he raised his eyebrows when he heard the word “Bangalore.”

So there you are, some people still don’t have an idea about Bangalore.

Later he started talking about people’s nature how it resembled the animal food chain. Some predators feed on innocent, lucky people who escape these predators’ slaughter. Only time decides how lucky they are. But we must not feel bad for the innocent ones because it is a pleasure to lead a life, however short it may be.

Well, we had a puzzled look. Enigma, well, I heard it in history lessons in World War II chapters; this was nothing short of it.

Soon, it started raining, he said “follow me,” and he took us to a small stone cave where space was enough for four of us to cover.

This is the cave, and it was ready so that we could sit in and take shelter.

Later, Suraj took us to another cave, which was very dark, and he told a sanyasi to do his meditation inside it. Well, we didn’t want to go entirely inside.

Now few people know the fact that I have a problem with heights. I am shit scared of heights. When I realized something needed to be done for this boy, the real fear went, and I was looking down, and never before I felt like this. I was walking as though there isn’t any fear. Even on slippery roads, I was confident I would be reaching Bangalore and write an article on him. Thanks to him, I am writing now.

By now, we were convinced as to why we were here.

While returning, he slipped, and for a moment, we thought, oh god, but he is a God’s gift, nothing can stop him from reaching greater heights than the peak of Achalgarah.

He showed us his hut from the top, and we hoped this kid continues to enlighten many people in the future.

Five minutes, we were down.

It took us 25 min to climb and just 5 min to come back.

He explained-“There are short cuts and long roads in life; to learn something well, we must never hesitate to take the longer route. He asked whether we were satisfied by taking the longer route or shorter route?”

We didn’t answer that question, but we did answer it on personal terms and kept it to ourselves.

Little Buddha, I called him and destined that we were to get enlightened.

As his name tells, Suraj, his face resembled the sun’s brightness and his eyes, never seen such powerful eyes.

We didn’t want him to give money because there are poachers, one being his elder brother. We wanted to give him a nice pair of slippers so that he never slips again and continues to do the good work.

We didn’t find a shop when we got down, and already his brother started approaching us and told us to give him the money since Suraj was a kid.

We gave a 50 rupee note and told Suraj to buy himself a pair of nice chappals. We told him that we trust him, and he promised us he wouldn’t misuse the money. As soon as he got the money, his brother came running and tried to snatch it from him. Suraj slapped him, and we just groaned at his brother; he was off running to save himself from further humiliation.

All three of us looked at him for one last time; he gave a smile.

If I wondered why I chose him to be the guide, I would be a fool. Luckily I didn’t ask that question.

Off we went, and that’s it. It was two hours with Suraj, 120 minutes of enlightenment. I have heard Buddha and his guiding ways, well this time around; I saw that we all sensed it.

My trip was worthwhile, and for me, I got a sense of how beautiful my life can become. It was the attitude, and he certainly did show me a broader sense of being alive and being purposeful in what I do.

I hope in India, we nurture such kids. I am not worried about him, as he is strong enough to take care of himself. If I get a chance, I want to go back and meet Suraj; I hope to talk to him, many would have got their questions answered.

When I feel low, I know where I would get my questions answered.

Koi Mil Gaya, Maloom Nahin, Buddha zaroor mila.

Life is beautiful!!!But What is beautiful???

Life is beautiful, but what is beautiful???

Is it, delighting the senses or exciting intellectual or emotional admiration?

Or many words like, aesthetic, attractive, better-looking, bonny, exquisite, fair, fine, gorgeous, graceful, handsome, lovely, pretty, picturesque, pleasant, pleasing, ravishing, resplendent, scenic, sightly, splendid, stunning, pulchritudinous … ok I am running short of words…

In any case, for things or people to appear beautiful, all of us use one of these words for our definition of the word beautiful.

In any case, beautiful things are meant to be relative, if not, there would be a certain degree of monotony in everyone’s life.

Its good to be different most of the times and sometimes it can be little boring.

And fair enough, the other way around.

Again it’s the difference in opinions which comes and generally creates contradictory feelings among everyone.

What I see, what I feel, appeals me or it need not appeal me, I call it beautiful or say not so beautiful, it is entirely my choice.

I don’t have to wait for people to compliment my thoughts to appreciate things which are beautiful to me.

Although it’s great to share similar feelings, but sometimes I don’t mind being a stranger in a No Man’s Land.

It doesn’t matter.

What I like, I like….. it

What people like, they like…. it

There will be similarities without which it is little tough to connect with people.

There are people whom I have met who like things because others like it too, there are people who like it simply because others don’t like it and there are people who like things because they like it……

I have seen things in my life which are beautiful and not so beautiful….

Well, it doesn’t matter, because not so beautiful things can appeal to some, at least one person in this world would enjoy that.

It’s a harsh statement but not far from reality.

So far, with my experience of existence on this earth, there would be lot of things that appealed me and continues to appeal me.

So it’s quite natural to express things which appeal to me….

Its lot different when I ask my friends, they have some things in common but there is a degree of propensity for their choices.

So this leaves us in a quite eccentric world…..

I like to aver to things which are “for my eyes only”…. Although it will be interesting to see from other “golden eyes”, but I better stick to myself and enjoy what I see and how I feel about things I see….. I do appreciate, if things look beautiful from other’s point of view.

Now for me Life is beautiful, and for the rest, let them think as to what is beautiful???

A man and his legacy left behind

It came 2006; I was rejuvenated so was Michael. Both were raring to go. Although I had significantly less to lose, it was a challenge in itself.

It was easy for me because I did not depend much on people. Well, Michael had his team; he had to motivate his team along with him. That was the challenge for him.

It started not so right; I didn’t qualify at the IIT-M fest (Saarang) in Sports and Ent Quiz.
I was confident of putting up a good show along with my pal.

Well, I was disappointed, but the trip was good fun for me. I just witnessed the best among the quizzers in India. The best part was, I had my pal Anucheth, who was part of that league and sitting pretty high.

For me, it was a setback personally. In hindsight, it was good. I prepared hard and was ready with my Sports quiz. Well, it was a test for me, and I was prepared for it. Confident.

It was satisfying at the end of 4 years; I got my reward; the Sports quiz was appreciated.

Michael had not so great races initially, and he was trailing. He came back to his best at Imola, and the highlight was the way he tailored Alonso’s brakes behind him. It was Pay Back time. Exactly opposite happened in 2005.

Somewhere mid-way through the season, Michael lost ground and was 34 points behind Alonso.
Now, what to do??? This cant happens twice in a row, I thought, being a die-hard fan.

Just when everyone in the world, including me, gave up on him winning the championship, one person rose. He was the LAST ACTION HERO. He was ready for the action. Race after race, he grew stronger and stronger, and with two races to go, he was equal with Alonso in points.

The best part was that I stopped having expectations of him winning races, and hence i could enjoy his victories even more and the disappointing Japanese Grand Prix later in the year.

Sadly he announced his retirement at the end of the 2006 season after winning an emotional Italian GP at Monza.

The final two races of his career turned out to be anti-climax,
At the end of it all, he lost the championship due to mechanical failures in successive races. Talk about destiny; his last engine failure was on a dull Sunday of July 2000 at the French Grand Prix.

I did not worry about what happened. But it was a little sad; probably, this is how life goes.

Michael, the way he took those twin blows is worth praising. He had no complaints about his car; he stressed when asked to comment about the car, ” the same car gave me five championships in a row, why to complain now??” he replied.

There are good moments, and there are not so good moments. One needs to accept it as fast as possible and move on. It was a sport, after all.

And in general, life is short after all.

The above incident gave me and every one an insight into a man who lived his dreams. He was happy to end his career on a losing team but a fighting unit.

He won, and indeed, he did conquer everyone by his racing at the Brazilian GP. His last overtaking maneuver on Kimi was the perfect way of showing that he’s still the King when it comes to dominating on the track. His aura was something which we call “The Michael Magic.”

He quit on the track, which produced many great drivers, none better than Aryton Senna, who would have been proud to have seen Michael the way he raced on that day(22-10-06). His final day as a driver in Formula1.

If at all, one thing which needs to be highlighted is the spirit of hope. The hope ignited many Italians and Michael’s fans worldwide.

He lighted the candle of hope for all the people who were struggling to come to terms in life. From nowhere, he reached the position of becoming a champion again. He didn’t eventually, but better than the way he lost in 2005.

It allowed me to acknowledge whatever I had, and it made me realize a lot of things. One of them is to concentrate on giving my best not only when things are going well but also in the same spirit when things are the opposite.

Problems are with everyone; the way one deals with it separates pros from the rest.

It was fabulous for me to have my journey parallely with Michael.

His ruthlessness and his one-lap runs were a treat to watch. At the same time, he managed to have control over himself. Awesome!!!

I always dreamt of being a Schumacher, being ruthless in the things I love, and being the best with the things I loved doing. Well, all I can say, I did get an opportunity. Or at least I think it was.

If conducting UTPT Sports quiz-06 was like taking a pole position, much to my delight.

“Winning on 22nd April at BMS with my great friend Anucheth alongside me felt like winning a Grand Prix just the way Michael did or would have loved to do.”

It was a team effort, with Anucheth continually encouraging me, but with me being ruthless as ever, on that day, all I did was very Schumacher-esque.

With me passing out of college and moving into my next phase, it was great and my privilege to have seen and, more importantly, learned from a person who did most things right.

Like all people, even he committed mistakes. But he corrected them and became a better person.

As Sir Don Bradman, people will remember Michael the way he ended his career.
I guess it happens to the ultimate inspirational guides. Sachin, not winning the World Cup, Pete Sampras not winning the French Open, and many more people like this, leaving a void in their illustrious career.

I am in tears writing this because words cannot explain the impact he had on me.
Well, I am a little emotional; hey, this is how I am. My strength is mostly, and weakness, very little by being passionate, in the way I do things I love.

“A winner is someone who recognizes his God-given talents, works his tail off to develop them
into skills, and uses these skills to accomplish his goals.”

Thanks to this winner, I can enjoy my journey of life, a beautiful life indeed.

People asked- “What’s Michael gotta give”- This would be it, at least for me.

What’s Michael Gotta give??

 

If there was anything in 2005 to Michael Schumacher, seeing his rivals go past him and disappear into the distance. He gave his best, but his machine wasn’t up to the mark, and ultimately it made him look like a miser despite his royal stature as a world champion.

Following my idol for many years, I was not ready to accept this sudden change in fortunes, but he just took it by his stride like all legends. It was his worst year, or to say, would be his worst in his illustrious career. One can’t rest on past laurels. One needs to strive hard to maintain. It’s easy to lose, as we saw in the 2005 season. It was not that he fell for the occasion; his opponents rose to the event.

It was for me; this time around, I did lose my focus because of some goof up in my academics. I was confident, though, but sometimes, results mattered more than confidence. You don’t win just by having confidence. Having faith is like a consolation to the people who didn’t quite make it.
I managed to clear, thanks to my self-belief, but my idol couldn’t. He was helpless.

I learned from this guy that he didn’t complain when things were going wrong for him. Instead, he was keen on improving himself and hoping things could turn this way. Unfortunately, it didn’t.

His attitude helped me a great deal. I was quiet, not reacting to what happened, instead of concentrating on what I had, trust me; this was the beginning for me.

I just went about my business, and I started enjoying this new phase of my life. I started accepting things that came my way without a doubt some of the decisions. If I wasn’t clear, I made sure I got answers to it.

I had failed, and the first thing I did was to accept this fact. I didn’t lie to myself; it was tough comforting myself initially. I turned to this guy, and I was convinced to go his way.
He had failed as well, and he was the first person to acknowledge this fact.

Towards the end of the season, it didn’t change for my champion. But things changed for the better, and it was for me, not for him.

The attitude with which he took this disappointment was something which I wanted to imbibe.
He knew he was the champion; just because he failed, it didn’t tarnish his self-confidence.
He had enough time to recollect his past deeds and be content with what he had.
At the same time, if given an opportunity, he would be the first to seize it.

My life changed, or to say started to evolve in a different way than previous to it.
I didn’t know whether it was the right way or not, but I enjoyed this evolution process within me.

The year ended, hoping to win his 8th title, and for me, I was expecting to continue enjoying this newfound path.

2006 looked promising; I, like Michael, believed in going out there and do my best.

It was a forgotten story to most of them, but it was the first stop for me.

First Pit-stop!

 

On the chicanery road less travelled

While I am travelling on this road, there come situations where something stops me. It can be a lack of motivation etc. Now, I begin to think, is this the road I always wanted to go??

There are neither road signs nor road lights ahead, but the road is there. Sometimes, no navigator.

Just because it feels excellent initially doesn’t mean the enthusiasm and motivation should last long.

Purpose, Is this road on my map of Purpose. Even half-convinced, I wouldn’t mind going and fulfilling it. I say to myself; Purpose is focusing the full power of what I am and what I want to achieve.

With this belief, I am sure of taking this uncertain part. It’s a challenge, which I want to face whole-heartedly. Challenge is the law of life. Once I accept this challenge, there still would be doubts coming within me about my abilities.

One of the things is because of my past, and hence I am reluctant this time around.

I believe, While choosing between two evils, I shall always take the one I have never tried before. I am very unsure of how it could turn out this way, but you never know; it might just be a blessing in disguise.

Convincing becomes an important issue here again with the bigger picture in mind. But one must not ignore to enjoy things that come our way on this path. Appreciate whatever comes and embrace it. Everything has a purpose in this world; it’s just how well we relate to these things and make them more meaningful.

With such experiences, we would gather a lot of energy. Trust me, this energy is compelling, and one needs to channelize it in the right way.

Setbacks are bound to happen on our road to glory or, in fact, on any street to glory.

Always remember, as Rocky Balboa says, “It’s not how hard you hit; it is how hard you get hit and still keep moving forward.”

Seen but Have we really met them??

I have two questions to ask,

  1.     Are we being honest to ourselves??
  2.     Are we being honest with our guiding force? In my case, it’s my parents??

The first answer is undoubtedly related to the second. I shall share my experience.
Firstly, if they’re a specific section of people who shall give us another chance right from the bottom of their heart, it is our parents.

I am helpless for the people who have lost their parents because life is like that. I admire the way they live every day.

How much time do we spend with our parents??
I have heard many people telling me my parents are strict, at least one of them. They don’t listen to me. They are orthodox. They want things their way.

Agreed, even I used to think on similar lines. Hence, I wasn’t clear on many things I did, and a certain amount of fear started creeping inside me; this fear was stopping me from doing things whole-heartedly.

Call it my fortune; I did get an opportunity to understand the real value of parents. It’s true, everyone loves their parents, but we tend to forget that it is very much true the other way around.

But I don’t understand one point. When we both share mutual love, why is it that we fear our parents??

I believe the best thing a person can do if he/she gets a chance is to understand them, rather than fearing them. They are the only people who accept the way we are, no matter what. Suppose one doesn’t get a chance. Time is still there, do it now. It is always better to give your best shot now than regret it later.

It is a failure for us not to convince our parents once we are convinced ourselves. Patience is required, and at the same time, one must respect their feelings.

I have heard many telling me; I won’t go against my parent’s wishes. That’s a brilliant line to say. Ask yourself how many things we have done against our parents’ wishes and why this demarcation is in particular issues.

I have done many things without telling my parents, and I have regretted doing so. I am lucky, and at the same time, I am proud that I took the chance when I got an opportunity to correct myself.

Most people who face this type of syndrome are the people who are not confident of themselves but want to put a mask of that of a confident person. The truth is, within us, it gets alarming.

Some will be honest in accepting this fact and try to rectify it, and for others, it becomes an egoistic issue.

Another point, my friends say, My parents are very different from yours!!!

A fair point… The truth is that my friends and I are also not the same, so how do we expect our parents to be the same. Maybe like, we friends have few things in common, I am sure our parents will also have few things in common between them, I mean ( My parents and my friend’s parents).

The difference is not in the parents; it’s in their background how they have been brought up.
How many people do think all parents think alike in most aspects of their children.
They do have different ways of expressing it; pity that we won’t interpret it.

We spend a lot of time listening to our friends, do we spend a fraction of that time, listening to what our parents say.

One thing is sure; we can afford to lose so-called friends, we cannot afford to lose our parents.
Ask a friend who doesn’t have a parent; he/ she will tell you how lucky we are.

It took nine months for me to come to this earth, which is valid for everyone else.
Feelings of parents are the same; it is just that we take or assume different forms.

Another issue comes… The gender issue…

Convincing one’s parents is nothing to do with gender. It is an escape route, in my opinion.
For everything, there are certain advantages and disadvantages.

A loser is one who cribs about dis-advantages while others do what they have got and succeed.
Be it men or women, parents, are the same.

Also, I don’t quite understand when people tell me; I want to fulfill my parents’ dreams, which is my priority.

How many of us know our parent’s dreams?? The last line is the most brilliant line to get people’s appreciation.

When was the last time our parents ask, look, this is my dream, you fulfill it?
I have heard it many times on many issues. Ask yourself, have we fulfilled it???

Now, how many of them did we go against??? Many without telling them.
So, here we are… We don’t mind going against our parent’s wishes for things that can be quickly done. When asked, we tend to reply. “It’s ok; no one is perfect.”

But when things are not easy, escape route. I don’t want to go against my parent’s wishes.
If that was the case, why did we go against them secretly in the first place??

I am coming back to the parent’s dreams. It’s a universal truth.

First, try to be honest with yourself. In that honesty, if your parents do exist, never hesitate to be honest with your parents. Never be scared of them, for any issue for that matter.

See the difference… I always believe, only when we are convinced of our actions we can convince our parents. Otherwise, we being egoistic and selfish, still blame parents saying they are strict. But deep down, we realize someday, not convincing our parents or not being honest with them is the biggest failure of our lives.

No matter how much success we achieve, it can never overweigh this failure; that’s the universal truth.

Following the ideals which were taught to us and applying them successfully is our parent’s dream.
Anything apart from this is purely materialistic.

Think, when we are afraid of losing our parents, it is also true the other way. So why don’t we communicate when we share similar feelings for each other. Good communication with our parents is essential to realize one’s purpose. If parents don’t exist, their ideals would always remain with us.

NO PAIN, NO GAIN

While I was outside, alone on a long walk, I wondered, What is it that makes a legend separate from most of us. Is it the type of food, the people he is surrounded with, or just the right frame of mind?

I thought these people knew what they wanted to achieve, and more importantly, they also knew how to achieve it. The latter becomes the key to success.
Success and failure are relative.

Once we know, what we are supposed to achieve, we need to take the necessary steps to achieve it. The measures will automatically come once we realize the intent of fulfilling the purpose.

So what inhibits us from achieving our purpose??

There are many factors, and if we talk to ourselves, we realize that many things in our daily lives are just a routine we are stuck with. Ever wondered why we follow this routine.
I have a standard answer, which is, to an extent, quite acceptable. “Everybody does, so am I doing.”

If we are vigilant about our own lives, we realize; we don’t quite like following all the routines of our daily lives. But we are doing it. It is in our comfort zone. If something goes wrong, there are a lot of them surrounding us who can help us out. It is indeed a secure feeling, not the one we want if we are honest with ourselves.

It is these few people who challenge themselves and do not go with the wind.
They believe they are born to leave a mark in everyone’s life.
Half the battle is won if we realize our potential. But it isn’t enough. We need to harness the prospect into a combative weapon to impact humankind positively.

Be it sports or any other field; There will be a thin line of demarcation between the ordinary and the extraordinary.

Sacrifice is an essential aspect in achieving one’s purpose. But, in my opinion, one must not compromise. Sacrifice and compromise are two different things.

Compromise accepts items willingly, whereas settlement is like accepting, wherein you don’t have any other choice. The limit of “Tolerance” firmly holds these two qualities.

If we tolerate things that inhibit us from achieving our purpose real purpose, then there is no harm in it. As long as one is convinced about what he/ she is doing, it becomes easy to convince others.

Next time, when you are struggling to convince others, Do ask yourself, “Am I convinced in the first place??”

The more convinced one is, the better one will be once confident, and in that case, there is the only thing visible, the road to success. Even if things don’t go well, we will find an alternative route to the same destination of success because we have the confidence of reaching there.

Now, to travel along the path of success, it’s no cakewalk.

We want to reach the ultimate point of our purpose; hence, we realize what we are supposed to do.

In this position, all we need to do is, concentrate on achieving it.
Here comes the biggest test of all, how strong are we mentally to reject things that retards our progress. This is the thin line I was talking about.

We being humans, tend to deviate from our path and relax. Nothing wrong with it, as long as one is happy being in that current state.
The problem starts when we are stuck in this current state and not being happy.

This takes a tough call, one has ever made, and we need to make this uncompromising call to liberate.

It isn’t easy initially; never give up till you find it comfortable, and at the same time, you are back on your road to success. It takes a hell lot to absorb, and at a stage, it becomes a pain.

One has to take this pain and start enjoying it by looking at the bigger picture; I mean the overall picture.

I am sure we will gain a lot by enjoying this period of pain at the end of it.
“NO PAIN, NO GAIN.” Gain means achieving what one has set out to achieve.

Try walking in my shoes!

“TELL YOURSELF THE TITLE LINE”

After realizing the path, there are bound to be many obstructions along our way. This is quite natural; we create things, what we think.

Human life tends to have many speed breakers during his progress. Some can be useful to achieve control; some can ruin a life. There shall be perfect things happening in our lives and not so perfect things.

Here we have it, not so perfect roads along our way. But is this the sole reason for not moving forward?

People ask me about my challenges, and even I ask my friends. I do get different answers from different personalities.

This made me think as to define my challenge. After giving a lot of thought to this, I just arrived at something I wanted to tell.

I realized, my greatest challenge was to be “Out of my comfort zone” and still be the same person. It’s like watching my life from a different perspective and trust me, I did get a different answer. I stepped out of the protagonist role I play in my life and, for few minutes, observed how I was from a third person’s point of view.

Now I am back donning my role, and I am doing things differently or trying to do it differently when I encounter similar past, not so pretty situations.

To be nobody but Rajan in a world that is doing its best, day and night, to make me everybody else means fighting the hardest battle I can fight, or any human can fight and believe I or that matter anyone should never quit fighting.

It’s like a feeling of being on a Lost highway if appropriate measures are not taken.

Knowing this, it becomes comfortable about things under my control, i.e., being myself and improving on it and not worrying about things that are not under my control.

It’s a simple belief. “If I can change, you can change; rest assured the whole world can change.” Yes, I heard it first in a Rocky movie, Rocky IV, to be precise.

If there is one thing in our lives that is constant throughout, that is “CHANGE.”

Hitting the road of one’s beautiful life

Riding seems to be fun even when the destination is unknown.

All I want to have is a beautiful journey!!! It’s entirely within me to make it adventurous and at the same time enjoy it.

We do face a lot of challenges in our daily life. I do have them like everyone else. Instead of playing the blame game, I am trying to learn the art of getting it solved.
It is a lot better to find a solution, finding answers to our queries, than just passing the pillow of our miseries to others.

Answers can be good or bad; the important thing is to find these answers rather than form a bubble of questions within us.

Passing the pillow can be a good time pass and with which one can get rid of our worries for a short time. But have we wondered, “Whose pillow is it anyway”??

I am a human; I won’t be 100% efficient in following the ideals. But I am at least trying to increase my efficiency. That reminds me, what exactly one means by efficiency??
I have heard people, including me using the word, inefficient.

For me, the efficiency of a human is just in more scientific terms–

Efficiency= The work done by an individual human / Total capacity or potential of that particular human.

In reality, the denominator value is much much higher than that of the numerator. Hence, efficiency is bound to be significantly very less.

Suppose a machine can give an efficiency of 36-40%, according to Mr Carnot. Our efficiency will be significantly less. So, in that respect, I am in-efficient, and the worst part is, everyone is along with me.

To increase our efficiency, it is essential to know our boundaries and these boundaries are relative. Just like engines have temperatures as their boundaries, we do have time with us.
An engine performs better once its mechanism is known, we perform better when we understand, who are we?

Our strengths and weakness and the way we utilize these two parameters translate into our mechanism.

A single-engine cannot perform all the activities, and in analogy, a single human cannot do all the things that humankind can do. But an engine can be linked with many other accessories to improve its efficiency, and we have a similar option.

So, it is vital to know, what are these accessories, and where is it???

For that, it is essential to know, Who am I?? Unless I understand entirely about myself, I would be making the wrong choices in choosing my accessories. That’s ok, as long as we are increasing our efficiency, even by a few margins. A lifetime is not enough to recognize one’s capacity, but it is possible to give it a shot.

Once we understand ourselves, we can understand others. We can connect pretty well, thereby increasing our chances to improve our efficiency.

Now one thing keeps coming back to me.”Why do we need this improvement in one’s efficiency.”

A simple answer to it “To satisfy our purpose in life and to live the life we always wanted to live”…

To put it in a much easier way. It is an universal truth that a building can withstand many storeys with a strong foundation. Similarly, unless we have a strong foundation within ourselves, we cannot expect our relationships to stay for a long time.

With a strong foundation, we can withstand any calamities and still retain those relationships.
It is crucial to be decorative and attractive from inside. That is where we live. Be it a building, be it our life, its essential to be beautiful and attractive from inside.

Not all are blessed with exterior beauty, and one should not be taken aback for this sole factor in life.

But everyone is blessed for being beautiful from inside. From my little experience, it’s always the inner beauty that can translate into external beauty and never vice-versa, no matter what.

It is natural to get attracted to external beauty, but this attraction’s persistence and longevity are pure because of inner beauty.

This suggests why most beautiful people do not have a beautiful life to live and not so beautiful people having a beautiful life to live.

Very few can pull off being beautiful, both exterior and interior. That’s a great piece of architecture. Mind you; everyone can be that Architect, the Architect of our life.

“Life is always beautiful; it’s a pity that we aren’t that beautiful enough from inside, so we tend to blame it on life.”

Riding on my Caliber

I was thinking, Why was I born???
There has to be a purpose in me hitting the earth. I was born, and I spent my childhood days with great pleasure doing things that I loved doing. Sometimes I went extreme, but that’s ok; I paid the prices for crossing the conflicted boundaries.

If you think I have learned something from all my activities, you bet I have got to know so many things.

My childhood still stays fresh in my mind many years forward, almost every activity I was involved with. Some are through my friends who I always make contact with, and others I remember them because they were the building blocks of my life, a beautiful life.

Now, if not a beautiful life, I have time to make it look gorgeous.

There is a conscious inside us, and my awareness keeps hitting me, reminding me of my purpose. I was learning; everyone has an equal chance of leading this beautiful life on this earth.
It is up to the individual to work hard and make himself accountable for his activities.

We cannot blame the situation and surroundings for our state of life or failures.
It’s just not acceptable. I am learning that, for my life to be on the right path, I need to take severe measures to be on the right track.

Some of us are born with specific advantages, but who is to be blamed for such benefits and disadvantages. These things take a back step once you start realizing one’s capacity and capability.

The day one realizes what he/she needs to do in life, we stop asking others questions. Instead we go on our own and search for the answers.

Our eyes need to be sweet to like all the people in this world. It is equally important to have a sweet tongue to be liked by all the people in this world.

It is in equilibrium, and we need to maintain the balance.

All I would like to say is, ” Every Life has happy endings…… If it’s not satisfied, then it’s not the END yet”…

The sooner we realize this, the better we would appreciate this hidden, beautiful life within us.